People are superficial, not just as a cultural phenomenon but as a hardwired instinct going all the way back to when our brains needed to make snap judgments on what was a stripy rock and what was a tiger about to eat us. Why do some ugly people believe they are beautiful and treat better looking ones like they are uglier does it mean they have more confidence. That is indeed remarkable you are absolutely right about “control”, it is true that we can not control people’s feelings great blog reply positive the top 5 things people who are close to dying regret when they look back at their life 2011/12/06 the joy of more than “just sex,” but perhaps not totally “making.
In the last 9 months, my articles have been read by more than 12 million people (250,000+ on my site and over 1 million on other sites that publish my work) of those people, about 98% of people have read a particular article and moved on with their life. A new study suggests that long-distance runners are more attractive because they have greater levels of testosterone which makes them more manly and fertile but there are other biological and. But if you’re not sure that your qualities as a person are more important than your looks, other people will judge you that way too so – to change your success with women, you have to start believing you have much more to offer than the surface, and you must be sure that there are women who will look past it. So, why not just “judge away” to answer that, let me start by drawing a distinction between judgment and discernment discernment means perceiving the way things are, period.
By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are” ― dietrich bonhoeffer, the cost of people should be judged by their actions, since in the end, it was actions that defined everyone” i think, is more honorable than not to judge at all” ― henry james tags. We all fall into the trap of judging a person’s character by their appearance how wrong we are all too often, the real character of the person only appears when some negative event hits them or you. 5 innocent things that science says make people hate you 5 innocent things that science says make people hate you facebook twitter google plus or hey, maybe we just like people we perceive as farther away because it's less likely they'll hit us up for money or talk to us about politics getty continue reading below advertisement shit.
But he also reveals the reason we should not judge others: when we do so, we make ourselves judges of god’s law, rather than doers of it we usurp god’s place as lawgiver and judge 2. People should pay heed to a person's wisdom and attitude, it should never be about their outside appearance in this generation, so many people in the world always judge people through their appearance, and not what is on the inside. 2 we are all different if you don’t like doing something, it doesn’t mean that other people should not do it too for example, if you don’t like tattoos, you shouldn’t tell other person that their tattoos look horrible.
No one really cares believe it or not, we’re not that special we go through our days thinking about how other people might be judging us but the truth is — those people are thinking the exact same thing no one in today’s “smartphone crazed” society has time in their schedule to think more than a brief second about us. You can accurately judge a person just by looking at their shoes, psychologists say researchers at the university of kansas found that people were able to correctly judge a stranger's age, gender, income, political affiliation, emotional and other important personality traits just by looking at the person's shoes. “care about people’s approval and you will be their prisoner” ~ lao tzu if we want to live life the way we want to and not the way others would want us to, we need to let go of our constant need to control what other people think of us, we need to learn to let go of our approval-seeking behavior.
But what we can learn is that our judgments mostly have to do with us, not the people we judge, and the same is true when others judge us in most cases, we judge others in order to feel better about ourselves, because we are lacking self-acceptance and self-love. We’re not smiling, we’re not sad, we’re just brushing our teeth or fixing our hair even if we’re not cursed with a bitchy resting face , we probably look pretty blah. They dress to look good but to who to the other kids other kids' opinions become their definition of right, not just for clothes, but for almost everything they do, right down to the way they walk cafeteria map) so there are more people who want to pick on nerds than there are nerds cruel to one another, just as we know in the. Fat people get paid less: obese workers (those who have a body mass index of more than 30) are paid less than normal-weight coworkers at a rate of $8,666 a year for obese women, and $4,772 a year.
People judge people from their looks, because it's the easiest way to judge it takes no work to just look at someone and assume so much from what they wear/look like they don't care to listen to the mantra of don't judge a book by it's cover. Therefore, we don't know we can't do anything more than suspect what inspires the action of another for this good and valid reason, we're told not to judge tragedy is that our attention centers on what people are not, rather than on what they are and who they might become. In my mind, i usually judge men more harshly for that, because so many of them insist on sitting with their legs suuuuper far apart, like their balls are just such massive bowling balls that they can't possibly bring their legs closer than two feet apart.